3 Reasons Mercy Aigbe Stayed In Her Abusive Marriage That You Shouldn’t Follow


While the issue of domestic violence is becoming common among couples, we need to reiterate the fact that there is no excuse to stay in toxic relationships and abusive marriages.
With the marital crisis of Mercy Aigbe still on, we would be using her as a case study as to why women stay put in these abusive relaqtionships and why they shouldn’t because at the end of the day, it does more harm than good to the woman.
One of the reasons Nollywood actress, Mercy Aigbe stated was that the husband after beating her up, still apologizes. Sometimes it is good to forgive after apology, but forgiveness doesn’t mean you should continue eating or receiving what you don’t deserve… forgive him and speak out, seek help and move out until the situation gets better.
The other reason is that he calls external people to beg on his behalf. Now this usually come to play when the man realizes you didn’t accept his apology, so he brings people that you probably respect too much to not listen to. For your information, these people are apologizing because they don’t understand the severity of what he does to you. They might not stay if they were in your shoes, so read my advice in the previous paragraph and save your life.
Lastly, he promises to change. In relationship such as these, the man has been promising to change since you guys were dating, because if truth be told, he didn’t start beating you up in marriage, and even if he did, the signs were there in courtship that he will do such someday, you just overlooked it and didn’t consider it as a red flag enough for you to run for your life… well, now he’s still promising, my dear sister, if the door is too far for you to run through, jump out through the window, but the bottom line is, don’t risk your life because you’re trying to protect an image or make some people happy, you deserve better and sometimes when the better is not being served, you move on… don’t worry, you’ll get better than what you even deserve AFTER leaving the crumbs you’re being served.

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